Do You Feel Lonely?

InsightfulEngineer
2 min readNov 3, 2023

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Loneliness is a deep ache that resonates within every human heart. It is the silent craving for connection, an insatiable yearning to be seen, heard, and loved.

We are social creatures, wired to seek and nurture relationships, and our well-being is intrinsically linked to the quality of our connections with others. Unfortunately, in a world that is more interconnected than ever, loneliness remains a persistent epidemic. If you ever felt lonely, you’re not alone. There is hope and healing in the art of connection.

There is a paradox of the digital age. We find ourselves more isolated than ever. I am constantly fighting with this feeling, too. I know that I have a lot of friends but none of them seems real, true, and strong relationships. Now, everyone has their rush in life, people are more selfish than ever, and they just connect superficially. This is why even though we are surrounded by the crowd, we often feel not satisfied. We need to build strong relationships that will keep us alive!

To build strong connections, first, you have to be aware that you need connections and relationships. Sometimes, we might choose to complete a task over spending some time with our family, because that task is urgent. But, spending quality time with our family or friends has a huge positive impact on us. According to research, people who live longest are the ones who have strong relationships. Try to spend more time with your loved ones, build true connections, and be an active listener.

On the other hand, sometimes you might still feel lonely, it is a natural thing.

To cope with it, be kind to yourself. Understand that feeling lonely is okay.

If it becomes overwhelming or leads to depression, do not hesitate to seek professional help.

Practice mindfulness.

Try journaling regularly. Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a cathartic way to cope with loneliness.

In a world that often feels distant and divided, it is essential to remember that loneliness is not a sign of weakness, but a universal human experience. As you strive to cultivate stronger connections and cope with loneliness, remember that every small step you take toward building meaningful relationships brings you closer to fulfillment.

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InsightfulEngineer
InsightfulEngineer

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